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Forgiveness means giving the right to yourself to live freely from the past hurt or wound anyone has caused to you. These hurts, wounds, anger, jealousy, fear etc bind us to those people which have caused us to feel these ways. We must learn to forgive in order for us to live a carefree and joyful life. Its like calling your spirit back and becoming and feeling whole with the universe.

I have tried to cover topics in my writing such as how one can forgive, why should one forgive and what happens when one forgives another person for whatever so called bad deeds or wrong doings they have done. 

There are techniques such as Hoponnopono (forgiving and cutting the cords) in Huna (Ancient Hawaiian Mysticism) and Cutting the cords in pranic healing which can be learned  specifically for forgiveness in those specific schools. I highly recommend techniques from Huna.

These techniques are powerful and would create significant changes in your life which I would cover in my writings.  

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Whats the actual procedure for forgiveness and at the same time not to get negatively affected by it ?

Firstly, its important to remove all negative thoughts and negative elements associated with that person or those people. These can be removed by various techniques such as Time Line Therapy, EFT or Higher Self Therapy or Energy Psychotherapy etc.

Then we call the person in our minds eye and say whatever we want to say to them and let them say whatever they want to say us. This is important because when all is said and done the relationship between the people becomes complete.

In case of a death of a loved person people who grief a lot is becuase there are many things they wanted to say but could not say or didnot say and thats how the time period of grief increases.  When all is said and done the person feels whole and a lot more better.

Then we forgive the person who needs to be forgiven and also ask them to completely forgive us. This should be both ways and not one way. We are actually not forgiving them , but we are forgiving the part within us - which represents them and when that part is forgiven it integrates with the wholeness inside us which makes us feel complete, whole and lovable.

After the whole forgiveness process is complete we should cut the cords that are binding us to them. These are called the aka  cords in Hawaii and they are responsible for energy movement. We can learn more about these techniques  in Hooponopono in Huna or other schools aswell and let them go. What actually happens  is that part integration within ourselves takes place and we return back to wholeness.

When we cut the cords we are also letting go of our obligations and conditions that bind us to them. We no longer give them the power to behave in a negative way with us. We are calling our spirit back into us to make us feel whole. Its also a practical way to practice detachment.

This process helps them evolve in life further and speeds up our evolution process aswell.

Hoponopono might be the most powerful process for forgiveness available in the world today.

What happens after we FORGIVE ? Usually 3 main things would happen after we FORGIVE.

First - either those peoples attitude towards you will change or they would go away from your life magically. How does this happen ? The concept is perception = projection. So when we are clearing the things in our minds eye it gets cleared in the physical world aswell. Our world originates from our minds eye. Therefore by making changes in our mind it would affect the physical world aswell where we live in. By cutting the cords we are no longer giving them the energy and power to control our lives.

Secondly , after forgiving we would feel indifferent towards the person whom we have forgiven completely. The biggest form of revenge is Indifference.

Thirdly the Universal justice would take place. Out here our intent SHOULD NOT be of justice taking place. When we forgive our intent should be good for the person whom we are forgiving. If our intent is bad, we would be collecting negative karma and it would come back on us. Our intent in the whole process should be love and think everyone as child of GOD and wish for the best for the person whom we are forgiving.There should always be a win win situation. Situations which arent often win win require paybacks.

We can cut cords with person whom we are in a realtionship with like wife, friends etc. It creates detachment.  This detachment makes the relationship more beautiful with them and a really empowering one for them aswell as yourself. You are detached aswell aswell as attached to them at the same time. You get to love them for what they are and they would like you for the space you are giving to them to act freely.This process makes the relationship with people better.

It is also said that its important to cut cords with any person who is dead - even our loved one. Us thinking about them everyday is just only delaying their and our evolution with them. Cutting the cords doesnt mean we arent or will not be connected to them. We would be connected to them at a higher level and at the same time helping them in evolve faster. Some people like Mornah Simeona found this whole cutting the cord procedure so effective that they started travelling around the world, teaching everyone the process whom they came in touch with.

I trust you liked the insights which I have given here. If you still have any queries which I might have missed out or would like to know more then please do email me and if appropriate I would email you back or write it out on this site.

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